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Why choose happiness when our natural tendency while facing adversity is to succumb to sadness, worry and misery! I agree there is no dearth of reasons to make us sad and miserable. Analyzed properly you will see that life in general offers many more moments for our miseries than happiness. Almost anything can cause us sadness, even when something good happens since the worry of losing it will cause us to grieve in advance. I also feel that from deep within our genetic code we are pre-programmed to feel more sadness than joy through our life. So we can safely assume that sadness is our natural tendency and happiness is something that needs to be forced upon. Yet we all know that no one wants to be sad or miserable. We all want to be happy, yet almost no one is, at least not for long. This calls for conscious proactive and continuous action. Therefore we must choose happiness and choose to be happy despite everything else. Happiness that is linked to something external; be it...

Smile is a good thing. When you smile the following happens (among many other things): Makes people WONDER (now what could that be) People think you are intelligent (which may be true) People think you are an imbecile (who isn’t at some point of time) People think you are happy (which you should be) People think why you are happy (if you do not know the answer then please don’t tell them) People think you know the answer (please don’t open your mouth and prove them wrong) People think you are successful (hopefully you are in your perception) People think you have a secret (we all do), which they wish to know People think you are out of your mind (better there than anywhere else) People think you think that they think that you think that they think that you think… (and it goes on and on and on and on… ) Makes people SMILE The first and the last of the above list are all that really matters. So next time when you cross someone either known or unknown simply smile and see the world turn a...